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It is Ok to be Attracted to Girls (the opposite sex)
This sounds like an obvious statement. However I used to think that it wasn’t ok to show girls you were attracted to them, not under any circumstances. I always got the feeling and the signal that they weren’t interested, and even looking at them, making eye contact could be bothersome for them. I felt the […]
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Depletion vs Depression vs Stress
Depletion is different from, yet can make our bodies more susceptible to, stress or depression. This was a side note in another article, but then I realized it deserved it’s own article. I call this low energy state ‘depletion’ or ‘drain’ but it is NOT the same as depression… and not the same as sadness, even […]
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Too often Pain & Sadness is mistaken for Anger & Disapproval
Sometimes we grow up feeling like we aren’t good enough. By default we expect to have to ‘earn’ others approval. That if we don’t ‘try’ or do anything impressive, our natural normal relaxed self will be disliked. Another could be tired, exhausted, lonely, depressed, sad, about something that has nothing to do with us, yet […]
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Awakening the Innate Intelligence
Play is flowing with each enjoyment of life, then letting go of each joy and worry, to move on to the next positive playful focus. Finding that letting go into the flow of each cosmic event, actually strengthens our memory, our ability to recall that facts we need exactly when we need them with mere […]
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Getting high on what the group thinks
Trading in Better Judgment to get High on Group Opinions; the riptide of an unrealized/unfun and overly disciplined community When groups gather and unite in their beliefs it creates a high feeling in every person. This can be amazing. Yet this also has a history of backfiring, in cases of Natzis or people ‘drinking the […]
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Harnessing Sexual Energy
Sexual Energy Cultivation the Social and Emotional Benefits of Enjoying ‘Self Love’ in a World that finds it ‘Best not Spoken of’ When i first wrote this my perspective was a lot more strict. I’ve since realized that enjoying activities like masturbation has really improved my relaxation levels and well being, and the over all […]
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Fun Loving Community, & the ancient rut of anti-playfulness
We all need a fun loving community. It takes activism to make it happen, we have to actively fight for a shift in a world that is clinging to patterns and distant abstract rewards that don’t really ever give back. Societies structure has its slow personal rewards, yet just going along with it contributes to a […]
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The Power of Deep Listening
Listen just to listen. Don’t worry about your response. People enjoy having someone who listens and thinks about what they’re saying. By listening to them talk and say whatever is on their mind and thinking about what they’re saying they can feel you thinking about them and it makes them feel closer to you. Visualize […]
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Rejection?
What is rejection? I remember times going to bars, and finally getting the courage to walk right up to girls that were on the dance floor, asking them “do you want to dance?” one just said to me straight up “No.” and grinned like it gave her a fucking thrill to reject me. Another girl […]
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Meditative Letting go and Nihilism blurred
There’s a phenomena going around. I noticed with many meditators in various groups I’ve joined they began finding that by siting still for long periods.. and letting go of thought, over weeks and months they were actually starting to experience feelings of emptiness and detachment, rather then positive sensations of being connected to the universe. In […]
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